Talking about riding on ice is different though, I used to live in Canada driving cars without any traction control so I'm well aware of what it takes on ice. The point is if the road was slippery, it means there was limited traction to begin with. Disabling the electronics may allow the skilful drivers to extract the last ounce of grip, it was still slippery out there. Given the OP spun the wheels already, he clearly wasn't fully aware of how much grip was available to begin (or throttle control?), would I recommend switching it off and take another bet against a moving truck on slippery road? I think others' wise words said already, don't even bet on it, be it ASR on or off.
I'd admit to be the naughty driver who pulls off far too quick, far too often at the lights. On wet roads, the fastest way is still not to spin the wheels. For the 1.4 petrol, hold 2.5krpm. When go, drop the clutch to 3/4 and 3/4 throttle, it will require both foot adjustment to limit clutch slip and do not let engine drop below 2.5k or you'll have no torque, when the engine gets to 3.5k rpm, hit it full on.
Also, I don't totally agree with switching it off for steep icy hill. If you do it from stand still, yes, turn ASR off. But one time, I decided to test the electronics on the steep climb near my house under packed ice and snow. I already had momentum, it was surprisingly good, I floored it all the way in 2nd gear and the electronics maintained momentum and took me to the top with no problem what so ever.